I heard somewhere this weekend that college turns your kid into a misfit! Those children will no longer fit into their thoughts, their places, or their prejudices comfortably. Questioning will take root. This is where growth happens. I agree. It is the exposure to new ideas, new people, new places that young people need to challenge their beliefs. That can be scary at the beginning for everyone, those at school and those at home. But this is exactly what should happen. It is that attraction to other points of view that allow children to change, to grow.